NATO

Not Attached To Outcome.

What would happen if we evaluated our achievements based on the number of times we Attempted something and not the Outcome of the attempt?

For me, it would completely remove that sick, disappointed, why-bother-anyway feeling that I have experienced over and over again when I have a dream, I’ve worked very hard toward making it a reality, finally worked up the courage to give it wings only to see it completely crash and burn on take off. I’ve recently discovered that I measure the entire experience by one segment of the process, the Outcome. Granted, Outcome is the purpose of the whole process to begin with but that’s just my point. What if we changed the purpose to the Attempt part of the process; the moment when we put wings to the Dream, say it out loud, release it and move in a direction toward it. What if we let go of the Outcome and give that part of the process to God? I can only imagine how much more I might accomplish even by accident.

I would risk so much more than I do now. (Ok, I’m scaring myself.)

Paradigm Shift - Release the Outcome. I am going full-tilt NATO, Not Attached To Outcome.

billclark

G.

This is an interesting tension that I’m not sure I’m ever going to fully understand. Practice is important (”train unto godliness”), performance is important (otherwise what’s all this talk from Paul about running races?) but transformation is what its all about (too many versus to mention) - but what’s cause? what’s effect? what’s the means? what’s the end?

Sometimes it seems like a gestalt test - the more you look at it, the more the images flip back and forth!

obahsomah

bill clark you are always thinking!

I think the performing part is to perform before one and only one…God. When we set out to proclaim and perform our deeds as something WE are doing, not something God is doing through us, then it is showing off.

Gwen…always getting me thinking way to early! Love you!

awarriorprincess

maybe its where the energy is coming from to begin with? maybe when we expect nothing in return? Maybe when we project the shekina shine away from ourselves? maybe when we walk away without having flown our banner at all and make people want to ask “why”?

parke

In some unhealthy situations there really is a sense of performance. I think that it’s worthwhile noting that sometimes we mistake things for performance that are healthy. For example, non-profits frequently tout what they are doing. There is a wrong way to do this, but they know that by touting what is being done (via the power of the supporters and with the energy of the receivers) encourages even more people to jump in. And there is a certain amount of that which you’ll see Paul doing in his letters. He praises what some people over here are doing in a letter that will go around so that others will be jealous to do good things.

There’s also an element of praising God. One of my roles in life is to praise God in my writing. Part of that is pointing out miraculous moments that are clearly all God. I think another part of that though is pointing out God at work in the community around me and in the lives of those serving.

It certainly does make for a complex situation to dive into.

Gwen

True Parke, I think when there is performance but it’s not for self, that there is a bigger picture for the good of others, that’s transformance.
When I think of Performance I think ritualistic and empty, just going through the motions because we were taught that Christians live a certain way or perform kind deeds. There doesn’t appear to be any life behind it.

Gwen

but sad…

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